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I’ve formally given my resignation. This decision has been in the making since January so please applause! It’s taken so long because I was put on several projects I wanted to faithfully complete. I never expected this experience to take 6 months.

The art of domesticity is in how you wear the apron, girls.

The art of domesticity is in how you wear the apron, girls.

I’ll be refocusing and digesting all that I learned at this job and there’s a lot of greatness that will come from it. I chose to cease writing a novel for NaNoWriMo in November when this opportunity came and questioned if I was doing the right thing but I followed my gut feeling even though blind. It was the best decision for extended growth and wow have my eyes opened to allow for that! I learned so much about the function of the military, as in the philosophy of propaganda, that I had to make a choice: shut up and stay or feel the breath of freedom and leave. Once the stress of military politics began to affect my health, the decision became easy.

I am deeply grateful to the men and women who chose to endure the ups and downs of military life. It’s a greater sacrifice than the average person will ever understand and to best express this point, the very people who fight for freedoms have the least freedom of their own. It’s an odd reality for my immigrant-to-American mind. I don’t want to be a part of a system which demands subordination and I don’t have to be. This is a great American freedom to not take for granted… And I don’t.

I look forward to blogging more frequently while connecting back to my audience and the domestic art of caring for my home, my kids and family, my soul and my creative inner artist. I have waaaay too many blank canvases in my studio and waaaay too many dust bunnies I haven’t gotten to clearing. I’m totally cool with going back to the apron and domesticity. It’s how you wear the apron that makes the difference… And, no one ever said I gotta be barefoot to do it ( I have to wear-in those new hot red Chie Mihara shoes sometime). ;)

 

*shortlink for this post: http://wp.me/p3f9L-1JX

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I got the red shoes.  They’re not sparkly but I traded that in for red shoes so incredbly hot and sexy I can hardly figure out if I should keep them for bed only or actually take them out on the street!

I love, love, love these shoes.  And the designer, Chie Mihara, is a magnificant inspiration.  All her shoes are handmade in Spain where she has a small factory.  Read up on her here.

I feel so incredibly fortunate to have a shop down the street which exclusively sells her shoes.  I’ve been looking at these for at least a year trying to find reasoning to spend over $300 for a pair of shoes when I have three children at home who need shoes too.  (They’re growing so damn fast!) But you know, as the years pass and I realize how much I’ve denied myself through time on oh so many shoe purchases (among other things), and all I’ve sacraficed in the name of good, committed parenting, I no longer think about my kiddies’ shoes.  They’re old enough at this point to take care of them better.  This is motherhood with an upgrade.  So deserved. :)

Let me show you the gorgeousness I get to wear on my feet!

Chie Mihara shoes, "Bacardi".

Chie Mihara shoes, “Bacardi”

 

Love, love, love...

Love, love, love…

 

 

Hand crafted...

Hand crafted…

 

 

Incredible designer: http://www.chiemihara.com/

Incredible designer: http://www.chiemihara.com/

 
… my next dream pair of shoes would have to be by shoe designer Nina Divito. Her shoes are stunning in a completely different way; yet, that wonderful elegance is similar to Mihara’s shoes. But, I don’t want to get ahead of myself here! I’ve got decide just how (or where) I’m going to wear these first!

*shortlink:http://wp.me/p3f9L-1JA

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After over 7 years of promises, my husband and I took the kids to Legoland. The many intents of driving 3.5* hours to a theme park about legos just never made the cut. Sometimes it was money keeping us away (the trip cost us 500* euros for one family) and other times it was just the driving commitment. To avoid at least this driving issue, I signed us up for the USO sponsored bus trip so we can finally visit Legoland before we leave Europe without the hassle of driving back. I wasn’t going to fail the kids on this promise that we didn’t fulfill on the first abroad tour. No. Way.

Well, when the weather plummeted to the 40s with an even lower wind chill factor (fucking freezing) and rain for good measure after a week of spring coming into bloom, please imagine with me the incredible ass kicks I gave myself because being pre-paid, we couldn’t cancel! We had to go. We had to keep this promise. We had to go to Legoland in February-like weather and I don’t do well in cold, rainy and windy circumstances. It makes me a sourpuss so on top of all this, I had to find a way to just deal with the lemon circumstance in front of me because -argh – I had no control over the matter except cancelling.

Sometimes in my family promises are tough to keep no matter how well intended. With a family of 5, things happen; changes suddenly occur; energy levels on weekend by parents are low. This is where pre-payment and bus tours work well. We’re all in recovery mode now. The best part of any trip for me is looking at the photographs afterwards. In the quiet seclusion of my comfy, warm home, I can look back and see the fun I had and re-experience it in a new way.

Enjoy the photographs!

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From Wiesbaden to Legoland and back home, the weather followed.

From Wiesbaden to Legoland and back home, the weather followed.

...and I tried to relax

…and I tried to relax

...See?

…See?

But a family trip to a theme park in this weather is like sticking us together in a tank of sharks: I'll panic, freak or drown in fear and now the whole family can't have a good time...

But a family trip to a theme park in this weather is like sticking us together in a tank of sharks: I’ll panic, freak or drown in fear and now the whole family can’t have a good time…

Lego_underwater

Oh noooo!

Once at Legoland, I relax.  It's freezing and I can be miserable or I can find the good stuff here...

Once at Legoland, I relax. It’s freezing and I can be miserable or I can find the good stuff here…

Oh look!  Berlin's Rathaus (City Hall) out of Legos!  Notice the wedding...

Oh look! Berlin’s Rathaus (City Hall) out of Legos! Notice the wedding…

Then we headed over to Venice...

Then we headed over to Venice…

...checked out the detail...

…checked out the detail…

Enjoyed a soccer game! (isn't that cool?!)

Enjoyed a soccer game! (isn’t that cool?!)

...and we even saw Neuschwanstein Castle, one of my very favorites in its real life version.

…and we even saw Neuschwanstein Castle, one of my very favorites in its real life version.

And of course, we had to zip by Frankfurt. (the skyscrapers were taller than my husband @ 6 ft.)

And of course, we had to zip by Frankfurt. (the skyscrapers were taller than my husband)

All this excitment required lunch!  The food was delicious and the Riesling was perfect.

All this excitement required lunch! The food was delicious and the Riesling was perfect.

Then, off to more fun in the freezing weather!

Then, off to more fun in the freezing weather!

I absolutely LOVE rollercosters and I had a blast experiencing them with my kids.

I absolutely LOVE rollercoasters and I had a blast experiencing them with my kids.

Then we got a little dizzy...

Then we got a little dizzy…

Looking at it, I had a great time despite the freezing temperatures, normally a perfect justification to cancel a trip. (Hey, I'm a Florida girl)

Looking at it, I had a great time despite the freezing temperatures, normally a perfect justification to cancel a trip. (Hey, I’m a Florida-raised girl)

Look, even Sandy the Turtle is exhausted with all that excitment!

Look, even Sandy the Turtle is exhausted with all that excitement!

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I had a dream on several occasions the past week where a voice kept reminding me I had a blog to attend to. I hadn’t realized I’ve not written in a month! Okay. Okay. Hint taken. :)

I took some time out to heal soulfully and research intellectually while I built the courage to make that lifestyle and nutrition jump to paleo/primal eating I discussed in my previous blog post.

April 1st I ended up in the ER for abdominal pain. It turned out that the doctor believed I was having food sensitivities or allergies and recommended another doctor.

Courage and I joined in marriage right then and there: I’m committed.

I’ve experienced a dramatic improvement to my hypothyroid symptoms since I began to eat as paleo conscious as possible (April 1st- no fooling). My mood, energy level and appetite have improved. My fatigue and body aches have subsided and I feel mental clarity more each day.

I wouldn’t have fully believed it were it not for just trying it but eliminating all grains, legumes, 95% dairy and sugar (some things need more time to break from), nuts as I’m allergic to them now and all trans fats and veg oils has made me feel fantastic.

Now, spring has officially begun – birds are chirping, leaves unfolding, flowers blooming – and this could throw some question to the paleo claim but I’m convinced this way of eating is helping me. If I get better, then super! If I get worse, I’ll see a doctor. 18 days in and I’m better each day so only time will tell.

For now I’m still healing, researching, meditating, and now I’m spending time cooking again with a new passion for the kitchen and food. This has only upped my disposition and I can feel the warmth on my face for good things to come. I look forward to sharing them as they develop…

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SunSigns

… “There’s no place like home.  There’s no place like home.  There’s no place like home”.

Now I need the red sparkly shoes and try it again.

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…if you’re going to spread the fruits of your genital love, be smart about it.

February 14th, 2013 one of the military publications I read, The Herald Union, printed a half page article on sexual responsiblity (page 15) and health through the use of condoms. I was floored! Like, holy cow wow, really? I’d never see this in the American South because of the region’s ultra conservative perspectives about sex. (and yet I’m moving back so go figure) I’m thrilled that the military took steps in educating (and/or reminding) soldiers about condoms. Sure, the men and women who serve our country probably already know about condoms but like good manners, a reminder doesn’t hurt.  It’s just smart and why be anything less when you don’t have to be?

Below is a photo of the comment I made which made it into print! (page 2) I’m a bit ear to ear smiles on it and very grateful the editor choose to publish it along with an opposing comment. These two different perspectives on the same topic are as diverse as can be.  Yet, I feel it’s important to stress that Planned Parenthood is not – and I repeat “is not”- an abortion clinic but a place women go to plan their parenthood options - opposed to just getting knocked up and claiming God wanted them to have babies. Pregnancy must be created more responsibly than that.

Planned parenthood also provides basic healthcare to women who cannot afford it.  If they cannot afford to care for their own healthcare, how are they going to afford the cost of parenthood?  Planned parenthood shouldn’t even be considered a “controversial organization” as healthcare for women shouldn’t sit on a controversial throne!  Try the banks, Congress, auto industry, pharmecutical companies, and the producers of chemicals which go into our foods.  Now those are are controversial organizations, not Planned Parenthood.  Take a look at the extensive services PP offers, including a section on men’s sexual health. That’s excellent and deserves extra noting.

I, of course, did an oversell on the article’s positivity. This is because 1) I mean every word and 2) if you’re going to spread the fruits of your genital love, be smart about it. If you’re going to be chaste, keep the condom education out of your life but not out of the lives of men and women who serve our country in order that anyone may enjoy the freedom to state an uneducated opinion and create controversy where none logically need not be.

Be smart and use condoms. Be smarter and use other forms of birth control with it.  Then have great sex and enjoy. ;)

The link to Herald Union is in the text.

The link to Herald Union is in the text.

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paradise

I’m dealing with serious homesickness.  Bad.  Huge.  I want out of cold places, and not just for vacation time.  I want to move, relocate, go back to the tropics and throw on a bikini, some coconut smelling oil on my skin and feel the hot sand between my toes and salty water on my face… and remember why life is more than this European adventure, office hours, working for money or dealing with petty crap that from larger persepctives gets lost in the view.  I’m itching to get out of the gloom.

Anybody got a pair of wings?  Airline tickets?  I’ll take a hot air balloon!

Yeah, okay so you don’t have any of those things for me… so here’s a little relaxation, sun and music video Bora Bora style as this is what’s keeping me momentarily centered and maybe you’ll enjoy it too: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8BqiEFz2pM

ALSO, here’s a video that’ll make you want to not only get out of the office but perhaps rethink the value of life.  Take a trip into space and see our beautiful Earth the way astronauts (lucky) get to see.  It’s truly marvelous and worth the 18 minutes.  Very powerful, beautiful and inspiring:

http://www.upworthy.com/some-strange-things-are-happening-to-astronauts-returning-to-earth?g=4

 

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When walking through Wiesbaden, one never knows what kind of crazy stuff will be seen!  Take a look at these hot mermen ornaments.  Are they fantastic or what?!  Not sure where they’d be fantastic exactly cuz not at my house, but I’m sure they’d hang quite well in someone’s place… South Beach or San Francisco comes to mind. :)

Merman stud #1

Merman stud #1

Merman stud #2

Merman stud #2

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Wiesbaden culture. Nice views too…

CafeMan

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